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    Topic:   MUSICAL CHAIRS

     SPOR2
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    The GLADIATOR thread, like so many others before it, reminds me of a particularly insightful scene from Planet of the Apes...you know the one where Cornelius attempts to profess Taylor's innocence by explaining his theory of evolution, only to be met by the 'SEE NO EVIL, HEAR NO EVIL, SPEAK NO EVIL' orangutan troika. The prevailing notion on this board that so-called civil behaviour is best achieved through the suppression or avoidance of contrary thinking, lest we appear not "to get along" is not only patronizing but extremely insulting to those of us...OK, myself specifically, who, in the life long journey to LEARN, would rather be told when I might be wrong and why I might be wrong; when I've got a fact wrong; and when I might foolishly compare apples to oranges. Simply, I'm not afraid to be corrected. I'm not afraid to have my likes and dislikes put into question. I don't come to this board for an ego boost or to acquire some false sense of familial bonding or even, heaven forbid, to have my opinions go unchallenged! And, it is not because I favour confrontation or prefer to be acrimonious, it is only that the wall which has been raised up against critical discourse at this board is such an anathema to me that I might respond to one, or more, of its advocates in a cutting fashion. Even I recognize (and occassionaly regret) my own excesses...so I certainly don't need Peter K to come along with his virtual scissors to excise the 'naughty' bits (by the way "Monkey Boy" was in reference to a line from Buckaroo Bonzai and, surely, questioning someone's taste in music through a G-rated metaphor is not a crime...except perhaps here...even if it was unneccesary). Besides, no one would even understand what I might be apologizing for...

    It's so ABSURD! Why participate in an open discussion if you're afraid to have your position questioned! Why should it be necessary to divide this board into an electronic sandbox where those who want to play G.I. Joe must be seperated or barred from those who just want to play 'Dress Up Barbie'! Perhaps this is just the wrong forum for me. Perhaps, I should just be content with Top 10 lists and 'Music to Masturbate To' threads (oops, I'm being naughty again...sorry, I keep forgetting I'm over the age of 12 and sarcasm is a sign of moral weakness); or content with critical commentary that extends as far as "it's so cool". Again, I apologize for not growing up during the MTV revolution where "cool" is a sufficient examination of the facts. That is why a critique, such as Michael Ware's is so exemplary...it feeds the mind...not the cozy self-delusions of the groupie mentality. Whether or not you agree with him his beside the point, but mocking intelligence and thumbing one's nose at those who obviously know better than yourself is, in my opinion, pure hubris. And you think I'm being unkind!!! Goodness, I expect, if he were alive and visiting this site, G.B. Shaw would find himself unwelcome and his remarks deleted for the 'greater good' of society: "Now, now, we don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, do we?"...or, more en courant: "Can't we all just get along". Balderdash!!!! That not one of the more vocal nay-sayers has even bothered to offer a reply beyond, "Well I don't care what you think, I liked it" or "that's just the way it is..." only prooves to me who should and who shouldn't be adding their two cents into a discussion.

    For once I'd like to see Jerry Goldsmith's attribution of his listeners proven wrong...that we're not just a bunch of "bottle-cap" collectors who can't see past the shiny surface, to be so completey self-absorbed by our novel little fetish that we know not when to call a spade a spade.

    Vive La Libèrté!!!

    Yours truly,

    SPOR2

    P.S.: Hopefully, Lancelot, my comments don't keep you up at night...I'd hate to think I'd shattered your little world. So much for an apology. Even I'm not perfect.

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    posted 05-04-2000 03:51 PM PT (US)     

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    Yikes, I've been singled out in this one. Does this mean I am to blame when differences arise?

    Honestly, there are many many ways to go after people's positions. Some better than others. I like to see charity, not belittlement.

    You can argue a point charitably or uncharitably. I am not saying you, SPOR, were uncharitable in this case. What I am saying is, if I am in the mood to remove a post partially or entirely because I feel it doesn't help the tone of the message boards I'd like to uphold, so be it.

    If someone feels, because the've been edited by me, somehow offended, it's natural. Just know there is nothing personal about it!

    That's it for now... back to the discussions.

    PeterK

    NP - "Indochine" by Doyle

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    posted 05-04-2000 05:28 PM PT (US)     

     Lancelot
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    Don't flatter yourself, thinking your comments make me lose sleep. I live in a very large world, sir. Large enough for many people, and I know not all of them are going to like the same thing, but fortunately I don't have to build the wall between Butter Side Up and Butter Side Down....

    I also don't have to belittle (G-rated, or otherwise. "Laugh while you can, Monkey Boy." Yes, Buckaroo Banzai is a favorite of mine, as well.)

    I respect others right to opinions. Occasionally, I disagree. Sometimes I disagree even though the "educated" response doesn't agree with me. Does that make me uneducated? I do not think so. My tastes are quite varied, and I find pleasure in diversity.

    The world can be like the Mississippi river: Shallow where you think it's deep, and deep where you think it's shallow. Sometimes the odds are stacked against you, but you don't cave. Cliched? Perhaps. My conclusion is that no amount of arguing will convince you that my preferences are better suited to you, but they are better suited to more than you think. I've stated it in the past--my general observation is thus: We are so small a percentage of film score appreciators to be bickering amongst ourselves. It's more expected of two adolescent girls arguing over which boy band is better.

    Yes, we can have the general tiff, but I think that anyone who contributes to the art form does so for a reason, and that more often than not, that reason is a well-intentioned one. The greatest hinderance to the art is producer who'd rather back a "songs inspired by" album, than a score.

    Remember that movie from a while back, "Defending Your Life"? Albert Brooks. Yeah, you know the one. There's a scene where Albert Brooks asks what his defender in Judgement City is eating, and asks if he can taste it. Tastes like crap to him, and he spits it out. The defender explains that with his acquired knowledge and abilities, he can alter his palatte to accept what he is eating, even though it tastes like crap to others.

    Now, using this as a type of metaphor for our own situation, you may put me in Albert Brooks' position, explaining that I'm too unexperienced, uneducated, unrefined--to ingest what to you is quite delectable. However, the roles can just as easily be reversed, and I could be the one who's digesting what to you seems like crap.

    The truth? It's not out there. It's only within ourselves, and what we bring to the music. We all bring our individual experience, our preferences, our own tastes to the table. We eat from the same table, though, so don't insinuate that I'm not just as worthy to dine from it as you are.

    I accept your apology.

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    posted 05-04-2000 06:26 PM PT (US)     

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    Your point is well taken Peter. The comment was unneccecary. I was overcome by a slight case of petulance at the time. Though hesitation put pause to my submission, it could not finally overcome the impulse to, in your words, "belittle" the gentlemen in question. That you should choose to edit it out is, of course, your prerogative and, certainly, its abscence would not diminish the thrust of the remaining statement. I would, however, like to make one request: that those who do not wish to read awful things about that which they like to listen to...please stay out of my way. If you don't like what you hear and read, close the door or turn the page! If you have nothing to add but: "Get off my back music critic", go find somewhere else to play where your delicate ears will not be offended. Moreover, you have the means at your disposal to earmark a topic: FOR SYCOPHANTS ONLY. I, for one, would be more than happy to know that I'm not unknowingly conversing with minors whereupon the law comes knocking on my door.

    Alas, I do love a hearty argument. No more than when I'm proven wrong...

    ???Peter???

    So, Lancelot, what are you suggesting...that we just be content with gruel. Relativism is a cozy corner to be in, I know, I've used it plenty of times myself. It is not my intention to change your mind, as it were, simply to argue the demerits as I see or, as in this case, hear them. That you failed to give satisfying support to your statement (when you enter into an arguement this is its most basic requirement) I simply called you on it. You cannot compare the reception of The Rite of Spring to Gladiator without enumurating the justification for such a comparison. I called you on this as well. Proove it my good man...even if it only holds water for 5 minutes...at least you are demonstrating your willingness to share more than one-liners and off-the-cuff remarks.

    [This message has been edited by SPOR2 (edited 04 May 2000).]

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    posted 05-04-2000 06:55 PM PT (US)     

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    Prove it to whom, my good man? You? I don't need to justify myself before you, O Great Purveyor of All That Is Music. I made the comparison. Stravinsky's work premiered at the beginning of the 20th Century. Zimmer's at the beginning of the 21st. Good enough for you? What's the matter--want to argue that the millenium doesn't start until 2001? Go ahead--it wouldn't be beyond you at this point, you pompous cynic.

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    posted 05-04-2000 08:00 PM PT (US)     

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    Worthy is as worthy does, and I'm not talking about a great former Los Angeles Laker.

    I guess this board just needs to let off some steam every once in a while. I have no problems with this, as long as you can shake hands in the end.

    Agreed?

    PeterK

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    posted 05-04-2000 08:11 PM PT (US)     

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    Dear oh me, is it so much to ask that if you choose to make a contentious claim, that you should also be prepared to back it up. Suggesting that your posting had little else to do but with their respective appearance on the time line defies credulity Lancelot. By comparing the two, you obviously intended to infer that the boos and cat-calls which greeted the premiere of The Rite of Spring (which, as an item of fact, was not perfomed until 1913), with acceptance only coming decades later and, still, only in select company, bares kinship with the lacerating reviews Zimmer's Gladiator score has received from "pompous cynics" like myself. One doesn't need a professorship in musicology to laugh you off the stage. NOW, to assert that your posting only addressed a correlation based on their appearance on the calender is a shoddy attempt at evasion. If it were merely what you suggest, what possible contribution to the discussion were you hoping to provide. I'm a Gemini. So was Stravinsky. (so is Zimmer if I'm not mistaken) But, SO WHAT!!! By drawing the comparison you implicitly assert that Gladiator will receive the accolades it deserves, obviously in some alternative universe where musical credibility is not attended by the inconvenience of music!

    There, I just dissected your statement in a thouroughly agreeable manner. That's what participating in a discussion entails. If you aren't prepared to be told your wrong, let alone be wrong...keep your fingers off the keypad or, stick to the Top Ten Lists where you need not fear to "suffer the slings and arrows" of...blah, blah, blah. Get the picture, pal of mine?

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    posted 05-04-2000 10:54 PM PT (US)     

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    I'm a Geminii as well. Small universe.

    As suspected, you took my intended "arguement" and went ahead and dissected it, as a shark to chum. What I intended to illustrate--right, wrong, or indifferent--is that you are a insufferable, arguementative cynic whose writing either enlightens nor entertains as you claim writing should. You are merely concerned with your own self-appraisal of music, and anyone who disagrees is not worthy to lurk in your shadow.

    Evasion? You have your nerve--visiting this board, pursing this passion of film music--is something I do because it is fun, because it is part of my soul. I don't come here to get into pithy arguements with you, who clearly take pleasure in them, and then pat yourself of the back for your superiority. Find another monkey boy to argue with and belittle and see how they enjoy it.

    Laugh me off the stage, if you like, if it entertains you. Your attentiveness to this argument proves it does.

    Now, shall I end here so that you can have the last word...as I'm sure you'll take it? Go ahead--say I'm not worthy of entering discussion...say I should remove myself to make way for intelligent, informed debate, so you can irradicate the cancerous "fanboys" that grow on this page, and concern themselves with top 10 lists and ratings by star, of which I do neither.

    Either way, I will not allow some overbearing bully with a computer keep me from participating when I have the freedom to contribute. You've got a down arrow button. Start using it.

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    posted 05-05-2000 07:32 AM PT (US)     

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    Lancelot & SPOR:

    I've been reading your posts here, listening to Gladiator while doing so (ironies are my lot in life it would seem), and I have come to the conclusion that ALL Gemini's are better seen, not heard.

    But seriously, this thread is probably better off being buried, as it is simply about two people arguing their points to each other and neither one listening. Poor PeterK is stuck trying to keep the peace here, when in fact there is no peace wanted between the two waring factions.

    Why do I visit this thread? Well, the entertaining value of it alone is enough to make me smile, but also because I do see, within all the hoopla and snide comments, some very real issues and interesting points being made. Both Lancelot and SPOR are obviously intelligent film music fans and, in this regard, I applaude you both. The bottom line is that your disagreement is petty and does not expand any film music discussion...you two are just arguing, it seems, to be heard.

    Well, gentlemen, I hear you both.

    To quickly comment, Stravinsky's early struggles are well documented...only time will tell how Zimmer's music (or Horner's or Goldenthal's or Pick-Your-Composer's)will be assessed.

    While I agree that the Zimmer approach to film scoring is nothing like the Williams approach, I also recognize that the times in which we live are much different now than 40 years ago. Forty years ago, atonality was unheard of in film music. Thirty years ago, GOldsmith's Planet of the Apes and Rosenman's Fantastic Voyage turned the film music world upside down. Twenty years ago, a return to the grand majesty of epic scoring (thanks to Williams' Star Wars, among others) heralded a new age. Ten years ago, electronics and minimalism began to take hold. Today, two of the top film score composers follow this line of thought. When you think of epic scores, you think of Williams, you think of Jarre, Goldsmith, Herrmann. Today, Thomas Newman, Hans Zimmer and Elliot Goldenthal are all the rage.

    In ten years, who knows? John Ottman? In twenty, Aaron Collins? How will they adapt to an ever-changing world where the tastes of movie goers fluctuates like the stock market? Will they succeed?

    At the end of the road, when all is said and done, talent wins out. They will succeed because they will be able to adapt. All the best have been able to do so. Those who cannot, fade away. Hollywood is truly a battleground where the fittest survive and all others fail.

    Zimmer has proven he is a survivor. As have all the others we perpetually talk about and drool over here. It is one of the reasons, I think, we like them so much...because they HAVE survived and adapted and can continue to entertain us in a variety of ways.

    Some of them have musical training. Some do not. Yet they marvel us. Spellbound us. Some more than others, but all, in some respect, succeed...at least for those of us who care.

    No, I don't believe we CAN all just get along. But we CAN respect one another's difference of opinion in an arena where there CAN be no argument about what we love: how music for the movies enchants us and provides us all with a release, no matter how small or large, from life.

    NP - Hamlet (Morricone)

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    posted 05-05-2000 08:30 AM PT (US)     

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    Nice job, Joe.

    Spor2, you present interesting arguments in always a cogent,
    articulate manner. I agree that, “suppression or avoidance of contrary
    thinking,” won’t enable any of us to learn. And I don’t think any wall
    should be erected to “critical discourse.” But why must rancor be mixed
    into differences of opinion? But please consider the following:

    1. I think any of us can take a fact being corrected, but appreciation of
    music, art, literature, etc. is often about personal preference,
    and who is the final arbiter of what is and what is not perfect taste?
    Does the person who hangs Picasso in his house have better taste
    than one who hangs Monet?

    2. Taste is often subjective You may hate a melody that I enjoy.
    I can’t always articulate sagacious reasons for my
    esthetic reaction to an art form. This push for justification isn’t
    always possible, but that doesn’t invalidate a predilection.

    3. Many (most) on this Board are quite young, just forming their
    preferences in music. Too often they’re told, “You’re young; you’ll
    outgrow your foolish tastes and become more refined in your choices.”
    What a way to alienate them and turn them away
    from their first steps into music appreciation. Our tastes evolve over
    time, but we all had our formative years. Novels I once thought
    were classics don’t appeal to me now, but they were my basis for my
    growth in literature. Also, in my HUMBLE opinion, I find most of the
    “youngers” on this board extremely well-rounded and astute, whether
    I agree or disagree with their choices.

    4. I’m a firm believer that critical discourse CAN happen without slapping
    people across the face. Admittedly, I can be a verbal knife when backed into a
    corner; however, I also recognize that slashing a person’s preference
    won’t change his/her mind but only alienate further discussion and learning.
    When I read a post from someone who waxes on and on about how much
    he loves a score and I don’t like it, a way exists to disagree without
    malevolence. I.E. “I see XXX that you really enjoyed score ZZZ and are
    promoting that others buy it. I’m glad it is great for you, but for me, it
    wasn’t appealing”....and then my explanation as to why I didn’t care for it.
    Maybe that forum is too “Dress Up Barbie” for you, but it allows other
    readers multiple perspectives. It acknowledges the other’s right to have
    an opinion and allows for disagreements that don’t get personal.
    (An aside: Not real crazy about the Barbie reference, as most of you would
    guess. Why is the worst insult to a guy a comparison to a female? I’d
    be more insulted if told I think like or throw a ball like an amoebae than a girl. )

    4. Sometimes we take things personally because we may actually
    RESPECT the critic who disagrees with us. This is MY toughest
    problem, but I’m getting over it.
    M Ware wrote a fabulous essay comparing Rozsa to Zimmer’s
    Gladiator, and he fluently supported his thesis. However, if I like
    Zimmer’s score, that doesn’t make me a purveyor of bad taste.
    He and I tease each other now and then about the merits of Forrest
    Gump. I think I could write a strong, persuasive essay justifying its
    worth, and he could, with his usual verbal verve, turn that
    movie into “monkey brains and Pavlovian drool.” I greatly admire
    his preferences, but I’m learning not to dash my own
    predilections if we don’t agree. H Rocco, one of my boys whom I think
    has impeccable taste, really SMASHED one of my favorite movies
    and scores a while back. (He didn’t know this, but he used terms
    I think like, “wretched and repulsive.”) Once again, I started to question
    if my own taste was only in my mouth. (Tongue-in-cheek now.) I thought,
    like a Victorian maiden, I shall take to my bed with the vapors.
    All right, like a middle-aged matron, I’ll go to bed with consumption.
    Then he admitted to liking Ishtar. (Chris too.) I arose from my bed and
    sallied forth. (Sorry, H R, but to say it kindly, I find the movie a tad bit
    hokey.) My point is that sometimes we question ourselves when others
    whom we respect and admire find our personal preferences distasteful.
    To heck with that. None of us are always symbiotic all the time on all
    movies and scores, and that doesn’t diminish our choices; it only
    diversifies them.

    Argue, disagree. Fine. But why does the tone have to display malice
    and animosity? All on this Board have the right to add their
    “two cents” to a discussion. IMHO, if an opinion is naive, I can
    choose to ignore it; if an opinion is insightful, I consider it.
    If an opinion is belittling and rips at the jugular, I disdain it.

    Civility does NOT preclude nor inhibit CANDID opinions, and
    acrimony isn’t a prerequisite for perceptiveness and intelligence.

    My two cents can also be ignored.

    NP Princess Mononoke

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    posted 05-05-2000 11:45 AM PT (US)     

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    My gosh people... I did a word count on this page and in total you've all wrote over 3,700 words. It makes me feel so small in arena of input.

    I kneel to you all... I am not worthy! I am not worthy!.........

    Jeron

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    posted 05-05-2000 12:03 PM PT (US)     

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    No, it's about discussion period and the temerity of Net Princesses such as Lancelot who immediately take umbridge the moment their comments are brought into question, and how the prevailing wind that blows through this message board skews the conversational level to the lowest common denominator to avoid a fracas. For goodness sake, just because I disagree with the guy only means I disagree with the guy. Am I to suppose that we're just all supposed to hold hands in our little film music circle and blather on to our hearts content regardless of whether we're right or wrong. That doesn't sound like open conversation. Sounds like pre-school. Everytime a heated, well elaborated discussion pops-up, in come the dullards to throw a wet blanket on it: "Oh, is this going to happen every time so-and-so writes a score." or "Can't we all get along" or they insist that Peter should intervene and calm the waters. Grow up. If you feel you cannot contribute to a discussion - stay out of it. I hold my tongue more often than I spit acid. But when the anti-intellectual types start pouring out of the woodwork, I immediately take RAID in hand and dispense it as I see fit! And Lancelot, because you're a Gemini, I love you all the more.
    (Too bad there isn't a smiley with fangs)

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    posted 05-05-2000 12:13 PM PT (US)     

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    ...and then the monster in the cave lashed out at the brave knight and killed him. The land of happiness fell to darkness and everything living turned to dust.

    THE END

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    posted 05-05-2000 01:58 PM PT (US)     

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    And thus, the monster envisioned his goal. To divide and conquer. Let the animals kill and maime themselves so as to make my job easier. All in the name of TRUTH! In the name of FREEDOM.

    Aye, this is what freedom gets you, the monster thought. Chaos. Petty squabbles about something as miniscule as musical taste. When TRUE evil lurks in the land. Where death by disease is rampant and nature claims lives by the thousands, so let the animals create even more misery but adding to those numbers that nature already takes away.

    For these self-described "INTELLIGENT" beings, the monster thought, these animals sure are stupid.

    (all played to "Tha Hanging Ghosts" from THE SIXTH SENSE)

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    posted 05-05-2000 02:05 PM PT (US)     

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    What a wonderful team we make, Joe. Thanks for expanding on my story... I only thought it was over.

    Jeron

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    posted 05-05-2000 02:55 PM PT (US)     

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    Jeron, my friend, it is NEVER over...even AFTER the fat lady sings (better, by the way, than any pretty little stick man or woman ever could!!)!!

    NP - Lost in Space (Broughton)

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    posted 05-05-2000 03:14 PM PT (US)     

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    Well, this "fat lady" is finally going to sing her last song.

    Thank-you everyone for your remarks, my only concern is that the order of the posting does not reflect their proper position. My last post was intended to follow Joe's last post but joan got there before me, so it would appear to everyone who might read it that I was replying to her as well. This was not my intention. Based on jeron's reply, it's obvious what impression this leaves. That I'm some callous bastard who'll lash out at anything that moves. I may, on occassion, be a callous bastard, but I generally have good aim. But, having to rush off to the dentist denied me the opportunity to amend this before the damage was done. I regret any insult that may have been caused to joan because of this. And joe, you're well reasoned as always and I've yet to come across a commentary of yours that did not reflect considered thought...even if I may disagree with some of your conclusions. But I have the greatest respect for your contribution. Make no mistake.

    Finally, and I cannot emphasize this more:

    THIS IS NOT ABOUT WHAT SOMEBODY LIKES TO LISTEN TO...ONLY THAT SHOULD THEY SHOULD CHOOSE TO ARGUE A POINT THEY BE PREPARED TO DEFEND THEIR POSITION. WE ALL LEARNED THIS IN ENGLISH CLASS WRITING OUR FIRST ESSAYS. AND, THAT IF YOU SHOULD FIND YOURSELF CORRECTED, SWALLOW YOUR HUMBLE PIE AND MOVE ON.

    As to the downward spiral of the whole affair...well...boys will be boys. Sorry Joan.

    Lancelot: Truce

    Sincerely,

    The Fat Lady
    (take a bow, but look out for that cabbage coming in at 5 o'clock)

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    posted 05-05-2000 04:26 PM PT (US)     

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    I'm a little confused, SPOR2, as I never felt in anyway attacked by you. I knew, even though out of position, that you weren't directing comments to me, so no apology is necessary. I hope my post was not read as a slam on anyone; it was a commentary that supports defending a position in most cases but in a certain manner. I'm just not sure that some matters of taste can always be defended. Again, I was never offended, just interested in this thread.

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    posted 05-05-2000 04:47 PM PT (US)     

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    The exchange above does contain some crispy repartee between SPOR2 and Lancelot, and it's almost automatic to imagine the two of them screaming in each other's faces.
    I wonder how this discussion would have played out face-to-face?
    Over in a thread called "Guess who's even more annoying that jar jar?" I hurt Kyle Shold's feelings, and I never meant to. In an effort to intercede, Howard L pointed out how much facial expression, body english, and vocal intonation defines our intended meaning
    when we discuss or argue in person.
    First of all, we would know each other's actual names...I personally find it annoying to be conversing with something called "SPOR2", or any of the internet handles that people use. That's just my idiosyncrasy. I like to know a person's NAME, not some label. Even if the name isn't real (like H Rocco), I prefer it to something like "Audacity".
    Also, in a personal conversation between two or more people, it's unlikely that any one person would be given the room to pontificate the way many of us do here at the message board. (Would ANYONE ever allow Daniel2 go on ad infinitum in person? NO! And nobody would allow me to, either.) So, there are many things that are said here that would never be said in a live, in-person exchange.
    If we had been talking face-to-face, Kyle would have understood my meaning better than he did, and all would have been forgiven. But as it stands, he seems to have vanished, never having responded to my apology.
    We're all going to disagree over something or other, but there is a difference between "passionate" and "mean". I don't believe it's ever a good idea to cross that line. Since the name of Buckaroo Bonzai has been evoked here on several occasions, I'll quote him: "Don't be mean. You don't have to be mean."
    Now I'm sure somebody will correct me if I misquoted BB. That's OK. I'm a man, not a Monkey Boy. I can take it.

    [This message has been edited by Chris Kinsinger (edited 05 May 2000).]

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    posted 05-05-2000 06:15 PM PT (US)     

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    I'm terribly sorry, but SPOR2 can't come to the message board and play at the moment, he's having cabbage lesions lanced, alot of them from his fingertips which would make it difficult for him to type. But, he asked me to impart, these, his final words as they introduced anesthesia. I'm afraid my Rasta patoi is very rusty though but here it goes:

    SO WHAT. BIG DEAL.

    He said it came from a film. Something called A Buck for Two Bonsai??? One of those foreign film I suppose. And then, just before he fell to sleep, he cryptically whispered, "Camelot". Does this mean anything to anyone?

    Yours truly,

    Spor2's Big Bad Mama

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    posted 05-05-2000 09:30 PM PT (US)     

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    (Well, let's see...."Monkey Boy", and then "Net Princess"--can I accept it?) Make no mistake--even the choicest epithets do not rattle me, or sway me from the discussion.

    What I suggest is that one learns to accept diversity and expression of opinion in a community, and generally avoid the verbal thrashing. I am not required to submit my writing to some commitee to determine its' worthiness on this board.

    Near and as honestly as I can tell, I was always defending an opinion, and my original point returns to the expression of one man's opinion, in a ocean of opinions, informed or otherwise. Anything further was merely speaking against a form of musical snobbery which suggested that contrary opinions (founded or unfounded) were target for mockery. (Myself, I never heard a compelling argument to prove that Zimmer *wasn't* musically adept. No, that was not an invitation--back off. Arguements as such are rarely resolved.)

    Mr. SPOR2, in some metaphorical hyperbole, suggested that equating my own likening to Zimmer and Stravinsky was comparable to likening himself as Moses chastizing the Baal worshippers at the base of Mount Sinai. Well, that's *his* own comparison--let him defend it, if he feels obligated to. Personally, the difficulty I see with that argument is that somewhere in that, Stravinsky = God and Zimmer = Baal. Well, Stravinsky didn't lay down the law for all musicians. He didn't say THOU SHALT NOT SYNTHESIZE...THOU SHALT NOT LOOP PRE-RECORDED ELECTRONIC DRUM BEAT....(Perhaps some feel he should have.)

    At any rate, Teddy Roosevelt said, "It is not the critic that counts, nor the man who points out where the other stumbled...the credit belongs to the man who is in the arena...who, if he fails, at least fails while doing greatly, so that his place will never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat."

    Zimmer's in the arena.

    (Myself, I'll be around...can't keep a good Monkey Boy down.)

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    posted 05-05-2000 10:10 PM PT (US)     

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    I agree with mr. Kinsinger.
    It's easy to be bold and agressive on a message board. Specially with a fake name.
    To my own shame, I've done it before so I know how it feels.

    First you think you're incredible smart and keen... Then you start to get angry when everybody seems to dispise your arrogant and provokative comments. Then you get extremely alone and start to attack everybody who doesn't share your beliefs - even if they were your friends in real life.

    It's a really depressing experience. Believe me.
    Unless you're a real jerk and gets proud to make lots of enemies to justify your miserable life. Them you'll feel very cool all the way...

    There's nothing wrong with a good argument and even a little fight over an ideia. But the rest is pure giberish and juvenile self-afirmation (altough some fellas are now over 30 years old, you know... )

    Thanks for your attention!

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    posted 05-06-2000 08:24 AM PT (US)     

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    It's a humbling thing to read this thread for many reasons, most of which become personally related. It's also clear that feelings have been hurt and the hurt's been expressed even if not overtly. Let me uncharacteristically take a page from my man in Queens and state that it feels like I run into a million muleholes every week and the last thing I need is to run into another one of 'em here on this website which to me violates a certain sanctity, a sanctity that I have placed rightly or wrongly but is there no matter what. And a mulehole is a mulehole even if one is more Ivy League about it. I know--there's nothing you can do and sometimes you find yourself turning into the very thing you're against and that's a wake-up call if ever there were. And hopefully you learn and move on. Anyway, if you want to be a mulehole that's your business; if a mulehole wants respect for what he or she has to say then it's my business, too. Doesn't mean you'll get my respect, but then again it's not respect that the mulehole is after in the first place. What he is after he's already gotten. And that's MY problem.

    PS
    Monty Clift improvising at the end of Young Lions: "There's millions of him out there just like him. MILLIONS..."

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    posted 05-06-2000 09:32 AM PT (US)     

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    Sheesh, I can't even make fun of myself without the Moral Majority piping in with their two cents worth of denigrating commentary. But, it's nice to see we all share the same fault. Have a lovely day ladies and gentelmen, I formely bow out of this row bed of hypocricy, my "mulehorse" has an appointment with his therapist and he wants to get there early for the complimentary oats.

    The Man With No Name

    P.S.: Peter, you might want to work out the bugs in this program, the personality routines are displaying an inordinate tendancy toward self-righteousness. I've been testing certain algorithms and still getting the same data. Hopefully, you'll have the kinks worked out in time for the Christmas rush.

    Thanks,

    Robert Williams
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    posted 05-06-2000 12:07 PM PT (US)     

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    Ok Bob. You're very cool.
    Can't we just get along now?

    N.P.: Jingle Bell, Jible Bell... tlim-tlim-tlimm

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    posted 05-06-2000 12:19 PM PT (US)     

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    SPOR2, what seems to be your problem?

    The "Moral Majority" is more than willing to give you all the room you need to express yourself...

    We believe in freedom of expression.

    Please ease up and feel comfortable.


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    posted 05-06-2000 08:36 PM PT (US)     

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    Jeron, its not always the number of words but content and quality of what is said. If you can say it in 10 words, good. Take care, John.

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